If you enjoy creating vicious BitLife characters who are masters of manipulation and killing, the Serial Dater challenge is the event for you. During the challenge, you’ll make a character who becomes a police officer, finds some brief love, and starts some brutal conflicts with his enemies and lovers.
BitLife Serial Dater challenge guide
BitLife’s Serial Dater challenge has five tasks to complete:
- Be born a male in Florida
- Become a police officer
- Hook up with your boss
- Murder two or more Lovers
- Murder two or more Enemies
Having the criminal special talent will make it much easier to get away with your character’s acts later in the challenge. However, you’re not required to use this talent, and you can still get away with all four attempts if you use the right methods. While there is some strategy, it is mostly luck-based.
Be born a male in Florida
The first part of BitLife’s Serial Dater challenge is creating a male character born in Florida. To do this, pick Male as your starting gender, the United States as your country, and Miami as your place. You can use other Florida cities like Tampa and Orlando if you wish, but Miami is a relatively easy and safe bet for this challenge.

Once you create your new character, age up until they turn 18 to unlock full-time jobs and the Murder option under Crime. You’ll need both for this challenge, as we’ll discuss soon. While you can start on the last two tasks now, having a criminal record will make becoming a police officer much harder, so I would wait until later for that.
Become a police officer
Speaking of becoming a police officer, BitLife lets you quickly and easily do this after graduating from secondary school. Once your character turns 18, check the full-time job list and scroll through until you see Cadet, Trooper, or Patrolman as position options. Roles like Corporal and Lieutenant won’t work, as they require previous job experience.

If you can’t find it right away, age up and recheck or close and reopen your BitLife app. Once you spot it, apply for the role and pass the interview to become a police officer.
Hook up with your boss
Now that you’re a police officer, you can get up to some funny business with your boss. To access this option, head into Job, your current position, and Co-Workers. You’ll find your boss at the top, who you can select to spot the Seduce interaction.
However, this is easier said than done, depending on who your boss is. You’re much more likely to have a successful attempt with someone who lacks professionalism, is “cool,” and who’s currently single. Their sexuality can also influence your attempt. You may have to swap jobs a few times to find someone willing to do the deed with your character. Although you must do it with your boss, you don’t have to do it at your police job.
Eliminate lovers and enemies
After having a special night with your BitLife character’s boss, it’s time to swap over to crime. With lovers, you’ll first have to find people to date by heading into Activities, Love, and Date. Enemies are even easier to find, as you just need to swap a friend’s status to Enemies through your relationships menu.

Once you’re ready to attempt these last two tasks, head into Activities, Crime, and Murder, and pick either your lover or one of your enemies as the victim. For the highest odds of success, pick Drive-By or Poison as your method. Having the Assassin’s Blade will make this a breeze regardless, but if you don’t have it, you can use these two for high odds of success. If you fail the attempt, close and reopen the BitLife app or accept your fate and escape from prison before trying again.
The more attempts your character makes in one year, the higher your risk of the police catching you. Try to spread it out between two to three years for the best chance of success. Once you pull off all four eliminations, you’ll complete BitLife’s Serial Dater challenge and receive a mystery cosmetic prize.