ST. PAUL, Minn. — For years, Luke Kunin watched as his girlfriend, then fiancée, then spouse, Sophia, supported his profession.
She was a shoulder to lean on when issues bought powerful in Minnesota. Moved to Nashville when he was traded there. Was a continuing through the hardest season of his professional profession — final 12 months with the San Jose Sharks, when he tore his ACL.
So Kunin can’t wait to stroll into Xcel Vitality Middle — the sector the place he started his NHL profession as a Minnesota Wild rookie seven years in the past — on Saturday with the shoe on the opposite foot. The 1 p.m. CDT sport can be his first time watching Sophia play on the highest stage in individual, as she’ll take the ice with Minnesota’s Skilled Girls’s Hockey League staff to face Boston in its regular-season dwelling finale forward of subsequent month’s playoffs.
“I’ll get to see what it’s all about,” Luke stated. “I’ve watched her video games on the web all 12 months — as a lot as I can with our schedule — however I consider all of the issues she’s sacrificed for me through the years so I can reside out my dream. I can’t wait to be there to help her and watch her reside her dream.”
Luke and Sophia Kunin’s relationship has helped them come by way of a lot to reach at this level. Assembly as youngsters. Watching one another excel in hockey. Changing into school sweethearts. And Luke being Sophia’s “rock each step of the best way” after essentially the most traumatic occasion of her life, the dying of her youthful brother, Drake, in the beginning of her sophomore 12 months.
Luke, 26, is a hard-nosed, hard-working ahead for the Sharks who hails from suburban St. Louis. Sophia, 27, who grew up in Wayzata, Minn., and is now considered one of PWHL Minnesota’s quickest, most dependable forwards, was generally known as Sophia Shaver till the Kunins had been married final summer season within the Twin Cities.
They’re the one husband and spouse skilled hockey gamers of their respective high leagues in North America.
For now.
“I believe the extra our league’s round, the extra we’re going to begin to see it,” stated U.S. Hockey Corridor of Famer Natalie Darwitz, GM of PWHL Minnesota and a two-time NCAA champion with the College of Minnesota. “To not say that romances are going to occur left and proper on the rink, however as extra franchises begin to share amenities and we’re round, it solely is smart as a result of who higher to grasp the opposite’s schedule and dedication than one other skilled hockey participant.
“To me, Luke and Sophia is such a cool story. It’d be even cooler if Luke nonetheless performed for the Wild.”
Luke and Sophia met on the College of Wisconsin earlier than their freshman years. Luke was an incoming males’s hockey participant for a Badgers staff he’d finally captain as a sophomore. Sophia was an incoming girls’s hockey participant for a Badgers staff she’d finally captain and assist result in an NCAA championship with the profitable objective within the title sport.
At Wisconsin, athletes often come to Madison for summer season coaching earlier than the varsity 12 months begins.
“We truly had been each in the identical dorm,” Sophia recalled. “It was a small dorm with us — girls’s hockey — males’s hockey, each basketballs after which some observe folks. We had a number of time on our fingers so we’d hang around on a regular basis. We’d see one another on the rink. Began off as pals after which actually shortly simply began relationship within the fall of our freshman 12 months.”
They’ve been collectively since, though as a result of Luke performs for San Jose and Sophia was a part of the Minnesota staff within the inaugural PWHL season, they had been newlyweds who hardly ever bought to see one another throughout this primary 12 months as husband and spouse.
Wild winger Marcus Foligno could also be six years older than Luke, however the two hit it off straight away when Luke arrived in Minnesota as a rookie, changing into such good buddies that Foligno was a groomsman within the Kunins’ marriage ceremony, together with Luke’s former Nashville Predators teammate Colton Sissons and childhood greatest buddy Matthew Tkachuk.
In early March, when the Sharks got here to Minnesota for his or her first go to of 2023-24, Foligno was so excited to see his outdated buddy that he requested if he needed to have dinner the evening earlier than the sport. He forgot, in fact, that Luke would in all probability relatively spend a while together with his spouse.
“He’s like, ‘Dude, I haven’t seen Sophia in two months,’” Foligno stated, laughing. “I’m like, ‘Oh my God, that’s proper. You guys have a loopy life-style.’ I don’t understand how they do it. I’d go insane if I didn’t see my spouse on a regular basis, particularly the primary 12 months of our marriage.”
However as powerful as it’s, the Kunins have finished the long-distance factor typically of their relationship since Kunin left Wisconsin after his sophomore 12 months to show professional.
“It’s powerful, however we’re type of used to it,” Sophia stated. “We’ve been aside a number of our lives. And with each of our schedules, we type of have the identical schedule. So we’re each unavailable to one another all through the day. We’re right here on the rink after which we get to catch up at evening.”
Added Luke, “We each love taking part in and each love what we’re doing and simply need to get pleasure from it so long as we are able to or so long as each of us need to do it, I suppose. Yeah, it’s powerful being separated. You need to see one another. However it’s cool to see every part that she’s been doing and the best way the league’s going, how a lot enjoyable she’s having.”
Sophia had simply performed a weekend sequence in opposition to St. Cloud State when she bought the devastating name from her dad and mom, Cristen and Tom, on Oct. 2, 2016, that Drake had taken his personal life. A highschool hockey and lacrosse participant, an avid outdoorsman who liked looking and fishing, Drake was solely 17.
“He was a really completely happy, regular, well-liked man,” Sophia stated. “That’s why it got here as such a shock to all of us as a result of we’d’ve by no means seen the indicators. He appeared to have every part collectively, however he was struggling on the within and didn’t need to open up.”
Sophia returned dwelling however got here again to highschool per week later. She buried herself in as a lot schoolwork and hockey as she might, however she was not doing OK.
Luke was considered one of her steady technique of help.
“That is in all probability one of many the explanation why we’re so robust collectively as a result of we’d solely have been relationship for a 12 months at that time,” Sophia stated. “I needed to lean on him a ton that 12 months as a result of it was clearly the toughest 12 months of my life. That 12 months and even years previous, simply having him there for me — and he was so good about simply checking in and ensuring I used to be doing OK, it’s in all probability how I bought by way of it. And bear in mind, he’s going by way of a 12 months the place he’s attempting to make it to the NHL, too, so he had a tricky time with it as nicely, and I’ll simply eternally be pleased about him for that.”
Luke was solely 18 on the time and was heartbroken for Sophia and her household. He had began to grow to be shut together with her dad and mom and siblings, together with Sophia’s sister, Crosby, who went to the Air Pressure Academy, was a pilot who flew refueler jets and now has an impartial contracting job in Washington, D.C.
“I nonetheless can’t think about what she was going by way of and her household, and I simply needed to be there for her and her household,” Luke stated. “Yeah, it was powerful. Drake was such an excellent child, and I believe the best way she dealt with every part and continues to deal with every part, she is loopy robust mentally, simply to get by way of that. She type of retains every part shifting ahead and in the best route.
“The best way she needed to deal with herself when it occurred has actually helped flip her into the individual she is at this time. Each day, she simply goes about her enterprise and is nice and respectable to everybody she meets. I do know she says I helped her by way of that point, however she’s the hardest individual I’ve ever met. Nonetheless is, and we nonetheless discuss Drake on a regular basis when the households are collectively, and he’s nonetheless a giant a part of our household for certain.”
Luke could be very shut with Sophia’s household, particularly her dad, Tom, who takes him to their cabin in Crosslake to go fishing and looking.
“Luke was by no means into it as a result of he simply didn’t develop up with it, however now he’s bought an actual ardour for the outside and loves hanging with my dad,” Sophia stated. “They’ve recognized him since he was 17, so my dad loves instructing Luke issues about fishing and looking. They’ve type of grown collectively by way of that, and so they actually do consider him as a son.”
As powerful of a 12 months because the Sharks had, profitable solely 19 video games, Luke scored 11 objectives, bought right into a team-leading 9 fights, led the staff’s forwards with 165 hits and wore a letter on his chest. Normal supervisor Mike Grier stated he epitomized what the staff is searching for in San Jose, somebody keen to battle each evening.
A restricted free agent, Luke hopes to signal a long-term deal there this offseason.
And Sophia, who scored a objective in Minnesota’s first sport at Boston, is a participant Darwitz feels will show fairly worthwhile as soon as the playoffs start. Each staff has high-end ability, however Darwitz believes the groups that separate themselves would be the ones with high-end depth offered by gamers like Sophia, who has scored two objectives and an help in 21 video games.
Brittyn Fleming forces a turnover and Wayzata Native Sophia Kunin goes high shelf. Minnesota up 2-0! pic.twitter.com/VTu0tY8wxs
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“In any playoff run, it’s your depth,” Darwitz stated. “Sophia’s a giant a part of our secondary scoring due to her velocity. She’s bought good hockey IQ. She makes stuff occur. Normally, a number of her play is with out the puck — how nicely she angles, creates a turnover. Does she need to be on this stat sheet extra? Completely. Ought to she be? She might be. She has the potential and the ability. However she’s doing precisely what we’d like from her proper now.”
Luke and Sophia don’t do a number of offseason coaching collectively. In Nashville, when Sophia was a industrial actual property dealer, she skated with the Junior Preds excessive schoolers to maintain in form and preserve taking part in. However within the summertime now, though they’re each professionals, Luke does his personal factor and she or he does her factor with a gaggle of girls who play professionally.
“She’s labored loopy exhausting to get to the place she is,” Luke stated. “And I believe it’s superior for the gamers to have one thing to sit up for post-college. It’s been nice to see how nicely the turnouts have been by way of attendance and the way nicely the league’s going. Clearly, it’s actual younger, however hopefully good issues to come back for each her and the league.
“Sophia does a bit little bit of every part. I’ve seen her play in school, and just like me, simply seeing the transition from her school sport to professional is admittedly cool. She’s very well-rounded. I’m simply having a blast watching her have enjoyable and simply hope her and her staff does nicely.”
Foligno bought to learn the beginning lineup within the locker room for PWHL Minnesota’s first-ever dwelling sport. Two of his younger daughters had been by his facet, and he hoped it might make an impression lengthy into the longer term that girls had been about to play knowledgeable hockey sport.
“And my ladies know who Sophia is for certain,” Foligno stated. “Luke and Sophia are two nice individuals who come from nice households. The entire long-distance relationship after getting married is wild in itself, however they’re two folks which can be enthusiastic about what they do and help one another, which is fairly cool. It’s why they’ve been collectively for thus lengthy. To not be sappy, however Luke actually loves his lady, so it’s cool to see them taking part in professionally and having success whereas doing it, too.”
Kunin is again in Minnesota for now, however he’ll head to Czechia subsequent month with the U.S. nationwide staff to participate on this planet championships. In 2017, he captained the U.S. to world juniors gold.
He’s simply excited that in this brief keep he’ll get to absorb considered one of Sophia’s video games.
And to hang around together with his greatest buddy, their spunky 4-year-old French Bulldog, Rocco.
“Luke misses Rocco greater than me when he’s away,” Sophia stated.
“He’s my favourite,” Luke joked. “However Sophia may take a bit higher care of him than I might in San Jose, so he stays right here. It’s all the time powerful leaving him, particularly as a result of after I come again, he pouts at first as a result of he’s so mad I used to be gone. He will get over it, however the cycle all the time repeats itself.”
This has been a protracted, lengthy 12 months for the Kunins being separated. On their marriage ceremony day final July, Luke stole the present on the reception by grabbing the mic and singing rock n’ roll songs like Fall Out Boy’s “Sugar, We’re Goin Down.”
“He’s not an excellent singer in any respect, by the best way,” Sophia cracked.
A number of NHLers had been there, together with Matthew and Brady Tkachuk, Sissons, Dante Fabbro, Ryan Hartman, Jordan Greenway and Foligno.
A number of of Sophia’s former teammates had been bridesmaids, together with Abby Roque, who performs for PWHL New York.
“Abby is type of the Matthew Tkachuk of our league: talks smack, type of a rat, so naturally we paired them collectively as bridesmaid and groomsman and so they walked down the aisle collectively,” Sophia stated, laughing.
That is life as an NHL-PWHL couple. Having fun with the moments they get collectively and appreciating one another’s careers as they attempt to fulfill the identical desires.
Even Grier stated, “I hear it in Luke’s voice when he talks concerning the league and talks about Sophia. He’s so pleased with her and will get such enjoyment watching her play hockey.”
“I believe we’re each tremendous grateful that we, one, met in school and bought to play school hockey, however then to proceed our careers each professionally,” Sophia stated. “It’s a brilliant distinctive expertise. It’s very nice to only have another person that’s going by way of the very same factor as you. Our seasons are occurring on the similar time. We get to speak concerning the highs and lows.
“To have somebody like that as your associate is admittedly particular for us.”
(Prime photographs courtesy of Sophia Kunin)